{"id":118,"date":"2011-10-26T17:56:00","date_gmt":"2011-10-26T17:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/?p=118"},"modified":"2016-09-12T22:28:22","modified_gmt":"2016-09-12T22:28:22","slug":"is-it-fair-a-temporary-shared-custody-deal-between-the-families-of-the-murdered-mother-and-the-accused-father","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/is-it-fair-a-temporary-shared-custody-deal-between-the-families-of-the-murdered-mother-and-the-accused-father\/","title":{"rendered":"Is It Fair? &#8211; &#8211; A Temporary Shared Custody Deal Between the Families of the Murdered Mother and the Accused Father"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section admin_label=&#8221;Section&#8221; fullwidth=&#8221;off&#8221; specialty=&#8221;on&#8221; transparent_background=&#8221;off&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; allow_player_pause=&#8221;off&#8221; inner_shadow=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221; padding_mobile=&#8221;off&#8221; make_fullwidth=&#8221;off&#8221; use_custom_width=&#8221;off&#8221; width_unit=&#8221;on&#8221; make_equal=&#8221;off&#8221; use_custom_gutter=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_1=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_1=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_2=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_2=&#8221;off&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_4&#8243; specialty_columns=&#8221;3&#8243;][et_pb_row_inner admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221;][et_pb_column_inner type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; saved_specialty_column_type=&#8221;3_4&#8243;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3a8567;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u201cPeace is not an absence of war, it is a virtue, a state of mind, a disposition for benevolence,confidence, justice.\u201d &#8211; Baruch Spinoza<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #351c75;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Is-It-Fair-A-Temporary-Shared-Custody-Deal-Between-the-Families-of-the-Murdered-Mother-and-the-Accused-Father-DPLIC.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-1622\" title=\"Is-It-Fair-A-Temporary-Shared-Custody-Deal-Between-the-Families-of-the-Murdered-Mother-and-the-Accused-Father\" src=\"http:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Is-It-Fair-A-Temporary-Shared-Custody-Deal-Between-the-Families-of-the-Murdered-Mother-and-the-Accused-Father-DPLIC.jpg\" alt=\"Is It Fair? - - A Temporary Shared Custody Deal Between the Families of the Murdered Mother and the Accused Father; Alla Roytberg; The Law Firm and Mediation Practice of Alla Roytberg, P.C\" width=\"126\" height=\"178\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Is-It-Fair-A-Temporary-Shared-Custody-Deal-Between-the-Families-of-the-Murdered-Mother-and-the-Accused-Father-DPLIC.jpg 291w, https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Is-It-Fair-A-Temporary-Shared-Custody-Deal-Between-the-Families-of-the-Murdered-Mother-and-the-Accused-Father-DPLIC-212x300.jpg 212w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 126px) 100vw, 126px\" \/><\/a>In the New York Times article dated October 24, 2011, reporter Liz Robbins describes an incredible event that has taken place in Brooklyn Family Court and involved two very distraught families. \u00a0In August, Nazish Noorani, a married mother of two small boys was shot and killed. \u00a0 It had later turned out that the murder was allegedly arranged by her husband, Kashif Parvaiz. \u00a0Prior to this tragedy, the family resided in Brooklyn with the paternal grandparents who acted as primary caretakers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #351c75;\">According to the NY Daily News article dated October 4, 2011, the lawyer for the mother\u2019s family stated that the children were afraid of their paternal grandparents. The maternal grandparents, who live in Brooklyn as well, have only seen the children once since their daughter was murdered on August 16. The Brooklyn judge was to make a decision on custody in three weeks following a hearing held on October 4.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #351c75;\">So, what happens now? Both families, with the help of the attorney for the children have worked out a temporary plan to share parenting time. \u00a0Is this justice? Is it in the best interest of these children? Will the mother\u2019s family bury its grief and anger and work constructively toward these children\u2019s best interest with the family that raised their daughter\u2019s alleged murderer? Should they? 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Alla Roytberg; The Law Firm and Mediation Practice of Alla Roytberg, P.C\" width=\"126\" height=\"178\" \/><\/a>In the New York Times article dated October 24, 2011, reporter Liz Robbins describes an incredible event that has taken place in Brooklyn Family Court and involved two very distraught families. \u00a0In August, Nazish Noorani, a married mother of two small boys was shot and killed. \u00a0 It had later turned out that the murder was allegedly arranged by her husband, Kashif Parvaiz. \u00a0Prior to this tragedy, the family resided in Brooklyn with the paternal grandparents who acted as primary caretakers.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #351c75;\">According to the NY Daily News article dated October 4, 2011, the lawyer for the mother\u2019s family stated that the children were afraid of their paternal grandparents. The maternal grandparents, who live in Brooklyn as well, have only seen the children once since their daughter was murdered on August 16. The Brooklyn judge was to make a decision on custody in three weeks following a hearing held on October 4.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #351c75;\">So, what happens now? Both families, with the help of the attorney for the children have worked out a temporary plan to share parenting time. \u00a0Is this justice? Is it in the best interest of these children? Will the mother\u2019s family bury its grief and anger and work constructively toward these children\u2019s best interest with the family that raised their daughter\u2019s alleged murderer? Should they? And how will these children fair under the circumstances?<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"color: #351c75;\">Only time will tell.<\/span><br \/> <span style=\"color: #351c75;\"><br \/> <\/span><\/p>","_et_gb_content_width":"","_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-118","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24823,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118\/revisions\/24823"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.goodlawfirm.com\/attorney\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}